I will go on record and say that life is already super hard. Then you fall in love with someone, you decide to get married and you have to figure out how to still be the best you can while making a life for yourself and another person.
My hubby and I are definitely not a 'normal' couple. We didn't grow up together, didn't have the same culture or opportunities. In fact, as our daughter puts it, it's weird that we work. I was born and raised in the UK until I met my hubby at the age of 19. We dated and were married a month before I turned 21.
The fact that we celebrate 19 years today is still amazing to me. (Yes, that does mean I turn 40 next month and no, I'm not old. I'm awesome!) If I could break down a few marriage pointers here is what I would say.
Talk about everything.
Be honest with each other.
Have sex/sexual fun often.
Put in the effort you want to get back.
Do what you enjoy and support your partner in what they love to do.
The best part of being married is that you get to figure out life with this person. Life is hard and having a friend with you through it makes everything so much sweeter. You will have bad times, but the trick is that you are a team. So you work together to figure it out. Don't give up on each other and life will figure itself out.
Always Keep Fighting.
You Are Enough.
A R Pliley
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